Why Just Win When You Can DOMINATE!- Tulsa Motivational Speaker

May 14, 2010 | #Fitness, #Win in Life

Why Just Win When You Can DOMINATE!

I have always been such a competitive person.

I love to win and I hate to lose!

I don’t care if it is losing in a business deal to a competitor or a board game to a family member. I don’t know if it was something that was instilled in me or if I was just born this way but from a very young age I have always hated to lose. It actually makes me sick! I will never understand the reaction of some people when they lose. Some people look as if they don’t care and others look as if they were playing just to survive and never expected to win. I was asked the other day how and why my Bootcamp Tulsa Fitness program was DOMINATING in the city. I was really impressed by this person using the word dominating…and I will get back to that a little later.


As I thought about the comment I realized that a winning mentality can become contagious. If you are around me on a daily basis I expect you to be winner. If you are not just give it a few days and you will begin to believe that you are. This is the attitude that I wanted to instill in our Bootcamp Tulsa clients from the start. So many people are used to losing and not experiencing results. So many people are used to just surviving. I want all of our Bootcamp Tulsa clients to be winners. I want them to win in reaching their goals and I want them to win in life. My coaches are winners and believe in winning and when you go through our program you will become a winner. I don’t care how many times you have failed in the past…You will win! That is if you really want to.

Now, back to the comment about DOMINATING. I really thought about it, and over the years there became a time where my winning attitude was not enough.I was not content with just winning.  I wanted just a little more for myself and for others.  I wanted to be the best. I wanted Bootcamp Tulsa to be the best. I want our clients to be their best and I want them to have the best.

As I thought about it I realized that for me winning got old. You can even win sometimes by chance. For me, it began to not only be about winning but about how you win. I wanted to win with CLASS! I wanted to be the best so that I could help others experience their best. I wanted to win with CHARACTER and INTEGRITY! I wanted to win with fashion and I wanted to win for a REASON. These 4 things began to drive me and we began to not just win but DOMINATE. Win Big!!! If you know me you know that this is what I want for others and this is what we demand of our clients. Not to just finish but finish strong! Not to just see results but see the best results!  Not to just win but to dominate! So now I want to give you…

Coach JC’s Top 4 Ways To Win When You Win… So That You Can DOMINATE!

  1. Win with Class- To me winning with class means to win while having style. To win with class you must be polite to others(Yes, even the competition) and show a genuine interest in them. I believe that winning with class is being confident in yourself while at the same time being selfless, generous, compassionate and responsible. When you win with class you will begin to dominate! Winning with class is remembering where you came from and staying humble…  You never know when you could just lose everything! You can still win with class as you crush the competition just don’t rub it in!!!

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2.  Win with Character- To win with character is be honest.  Don’t expect to dominate by being deceitful or cheating someone. To win with character means to do the right thing. Enough wins with character will build you a reputation to be reckoned with. Do this by always being your best while at the same time being considerate of others. I am not telling to be so nice so that you get taken advantage of. Winning sometimes has to get ugly and that is ok …just don’t jeopardize your character along the way. To win with character you must be self disciplined and persevere. You must be accountable for your choices and no matter what happens you do what you know you are supposed to do! For me winning is part of my character and i refuse to compromise this!

3. Win with Integrity-  To win with integrity is to be consistent in your actions. No what you stand for and don’t waiver from that. You know your values and morals and cannot be shaken.  When you win with integrity you play by the rules and don’t take advantage of others. You must show compassion and gratitude and help others along the way. I am not telling you to be soft by any means. You that know me know that I am not soft at all…What I am telling you is that you can have integrity and still win!

4. Win For  a Reason- Why do you do what you do? What is your motivation for wanting to win? Why do you want to be the best? Why do you want to dominate? Everyone has a reason for wanting to win. It is a great feeling to be victorious but when you have a reason that you want or need to be victorious, it will taste even better and be more rewarding. You will never dominate and rarely win if you don’t know why you want to win. This reason will be the motivation that keeps you going when times get tough. It will keep you from quitting when obstacles arise. So, I ask you-  Why do you do what you do?


and don’t tell me because your family was kidnapped by Ninjas!!

This guy may not winning but at least he is creative!

So there you have it! My top 4 ways to win so that you can begin to DOMINATE!!!

I am not telling you that I was always a winner…This is something that I have developed, an attitude, a mindset that I have created! What I am telling you that how you win is just as important as winning if you ever want to dominate!

Dominating is a mindset and if you want to create the winning mindset so that you can dominate you need to check out my new book YOUR TRANSFORMATION GAMEPLAN!

As always I love to gear what you have to say so leave a comment!

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Coach JC

Coach JC is a Life coach in Tulsa and does life coaching in Tulsa through motivational speaking in Tulsa OK. Coach JC has been able to reach a large audience and is known as a motivational speaker in Tulsa. His Bootcamp Tulsa Outdoor Fitness Program has been transforming lives. The Tulsa Boot camp now has locations in Owasso, Jenks, South Tulsa, Midtown and Broken Arrow. Jonathan Conneely is dedicated to transforming lives through his latest book The Secret To REAL Weight Loss Success.

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